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	<description>Mid-life crisis, motherhood and martinis</description>
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		<title>By: Venomous Kate</title>
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		<dc:creator>Venomous Kate</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jan 2007 17:49:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve been doing a similar chant. It&#039;s surprisingly effective. So far the single biggest difference for me this time - versus all the other times I tried to quit - is that I am &lt;em&gt;not&lt;/em&gt; giving myself an excuse to take &quot;just one little puff&quot; or to have &quot;just part of a cigarette to quell the cravings.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve been doing a similar chant. It&#8217;s surprisingly effective. So far the single biggest difference for me this time &#8211; versus all the other times I tried to quit &#8211; is that I am <em>not</em> giving myself an excuse to take &#8220;just one little puff&#8221; or to have &#8220;just part of a cigarette to quell the cravings.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Timmer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Timmer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jan 2007 12:19:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I just quit smoking, again, back in August and so far so good.  I find Zyban works wonders to keep me from taking off the heads of people around me, but I&#039;m weak that way.  One of the other things I practically chanted when a craving hit hard was, &quot;No matter what I do, the craving will be gone in 10 minutes.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just quit smoking, again, back in August and so far so good.  I find Zyban works wonders to keep me from taking off the heads of people around me, but I&#8217;m weak that way.  One of the other things I practically chanted when a craving hit hard was, &#8220;No matter what I do, the craving will be gone in 10 minutes.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: pam</title>
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		<dc:creator>pam</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jan 2007 11:01:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I never, ever do the resolution thing, but like you this year is different...  and I have some weight to lose as well.  ;)  
Don&#039;t know what it is about the holidays; I stop working out and start stuffing my face.  But my &#039;holidays&#039; are starting earlier every year...  LOL!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I never, ever do the resolution thing, but like you this year is different&#8230;  and I have some weight to lose as well.  <img src='http://www.electricvenom.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
Don&#8217;t know what it is about the holidays; I stop working out and start stuffing my face.  But my &#8216;holidays&#8217; are starting earlier every year&#8230;  LOL!</p>
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		<title>By: Teresa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Teresa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jan 2007 05:37:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Best of luck on the smoking thing.  I knew a guy once who quit cold turkey from a 3 pack a day habit - successfully.  He was taking tae kwon do... when he got cravings he&#039;d do pushups until his arms collapsed. *grin*  Possibly you could use the exersize bike in that way...

On the exercise.  I&#039;ve found that if I put it in my treo as an appointment - I will do it as opposed to thinking I&#039;ll get to it later in the day.  I know you left your old treo behind... but if you have a calendar in outlook or something of that sort - where you can make appointments with alarms (very important to have an alarm!) you might be able to do some working out. Do a little bit at the same time every day instead of trying to do a lot in 2 or 3 days a week.  Consistency really helps. 

On the painting - set up todo lists. Start with the room you want done first.  Plan  out what you would do every day (maybe even one wall at a time instead of the whole room at once) put it in your calendar... then you&#039;ll do it just to check it off.  (remember to add a reward for finishing at the end) 

And have a good time with Beth!  We want to hear all about it. *grin*</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Best of luck on the smoking thing.  I knew a guy once who quit cold turkey from a 3 pack a day habit &#8211; successfully.  He was taking tae kwon do&#8230; when he got cravings he&#8217;d do pushups until his arms collapsed. *grin*  Possibly you could use the exersize bike in that way&#8230;</p>
<p>On the exercise.  I&#8217;ve found that if I put it in my treo as an appointment &#8211; I will do it as opposed to thinking I&#8217;ll get to it later in the day.  I know you left your old treo behind&#8230; but if you have a calendar in outlook or something of that sort &#8211; where you can make appointments with alarms (very important to have an alarm!) you might be able to do some working out. Do a little bit at the same time every day instead of trying to do a lot in 2 or 3 days a week.  Consistency really helps. </p>
<p>On the painting &#8211; set up todo lists. Start with the room you want done first.  Plan  out what you would do every day (maybe even one wall at a time instead of the whole room at once) put it in your calendar&#8230; then you&#8217;ll do it just to check it off.  (remember to add a reward for finishing at the end) </p>
<p>And have a good time with Beth!  We want to hear all about it. *grin*</p>
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		<title>By: RAMMER</title>
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		<dc:creator>RAMMER</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jan 2007 03:29:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Best wishes on the smokes thing.  Everyone I know who has really quit has done it as you are now.  Just fed up with it and done.  I would have said it was the best resolution you could have made for yourself, except that I have had drinks with Beth a couple times, and she and her Man-Friday are down-right all-right.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Best wishes on the smokes thing.  Everyone I know who has really quit has done it as you are now.  Just fed up with it and done.  I would have said it was the best resolution you could have made for yourself, except that I have had drinks with Beth a couple times, and she and her Man-Friday are down-right all-right.</p>
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		<title>By: Venomous Kate</title>
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		<dc:creator>Venomous Kate</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jan 2007 02:52:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My Quit Meter just gave me this positive little reminder:

&lt;blockquote&gt;I&#039;ve been smoke free for One Day, 16 Hours and 52 Minutes, while extending my life expectancy 4 Hours, by avoiding the use of 60 cancer sticks that would have cost me $7.15.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Sure, it&#039;s small but it&#039;s a start!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My Quit Meter just gave me this positive little reminder:</p>
<blockquote><p>I&#8217;ve been smoke free for One Day, 16 Hours and 52 Minutes, while extending my life expectancy 4 Hours, by avoiding the use of 60 cancer sticks that would have cost me $7.15.</p></blockquote>
<p>Sure, it&#8217;s small but it&#8217;s a start!</p>
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		<title>By: Venomous Kate</title>
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		<dc:creator>Venomous Kate</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jan 2007 02:37:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Holding myself accountable was the big reason for publshing these, particularly on the smoking thing. I&#039;ve tried to quit so many times, but have never actually made it to the end of Day 2 without breaking down and lighting one up. It&#039;s always been, &quot;Well, one won&#039;t &lt;em&gt;really&lt;/em&gt; matter.&quot; This time, I haven&#039;t given in. I just keep telling myself the craving will pass, that I want to quit, and that in a week this will be much easier.

Sure wish VH wouldn&#039;t keep giving in, though -- just smelling the smoke on him when he comes in from &quot;sneaking&quot; a cigarette outside is an awful temptation.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Holding myself accountable was the big reason for publshing these, particularly on the smoking thing. I&#8217;ve tried to quit so many times, but have never actually made it to the end of Day 2 without breaking down and lighting one up. It&#8217;s always been, &#8220;Well, one won&#8217;t <em>really</em> matter.&#8221; This time, I haven&#8217;t given in. I just keep telling myself the craving will pass, that I want to quit, and that in a week this will be much easier.</p>
<p>Sure wish VH wouldn&#8217;t keep giving in, though &#8212; just smelling the smoke on him when he comes in from &#8220;sneaking&#8221; a cigarette outside is an awful temptation.</p>
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		<title>By: GZ Expat</title>
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		<dc:creator>GZ Expat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jan 2007 01:53:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You have many things on your list that I need to do as well.

I quit smoking many years ago.  My method was a basic cold turkey method...but when I got the craving, I went to the store and bought the oldest, nastiest cigarette they may have on the shelf.  You know, the kind that never sell and nobody smokes.  Stale, nasty, make ya vomit kind of smokes...it worked.  It put a taste in my mouth that I just cannot shake and I have absolutely no desire for a cigarette today.  Cigars...now that is different.  But, I usually have those around special occasions.

Good luck to you...nothing like publishing what you want to do.  Perhaps I should do the same thing, that might put the pressure on me!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You have many things on your list that I need to do as well.</p>
<p>I quit smoking many years ago.  My method was a basic cold turkey method&#8230;but when I got the craving, I went to the store and bought the oldest, nastiest cigarette they may have on the shelf.  You know, the kind that never sell and nobody smokes.  Stale, nasty, make ya vomit kind of smokes&#8230;it worked.  It put a taste in my mouth that I just cannot shake and I have absolutely no desire for a cigarette today.  Cigars&#8230;now that is different.  But, I usually have those around special occasions.</p>
<p>Good luck to you&#8230;nothing like publishing what you want to do.  Perhaps I should do the same thing, that might put the pressure on me!</p>
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		<title>By: GZ Expat, Part II</title>
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		<dc:creator>GZ Expat, Part II</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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